SEDUCTION


Mary Balogh (2009). Then Comes Seduction.


This is the 2nd book in the Huxtable series set in the Regency era of England. Jasper Finley, Baron Montford, wagers to seduce Katherine Huxtable in a fortnight, and upon the verge of winning his wager, he stops and confesses his wager to her...later he makes a double wager with Kate, that they will each fall in love with each other--which in time, they do, but not without an intriguing set of seductions.


Favorite quotes:

Kate: "...decided that love was not safe but that it must be pursued at all costs." (224)

There was something very special about Cedarhurst, something that spoke to her soul. She could just sit here forever...Just being. A part of it all." (294)


One sound psychological principle for remaking memories:

Jasper remakes an old memory (the initial seduction) by creating a similar set of circumstances but with a different, more positive ending (a mutual seduction), thereby superimposing this new memory over the old one. 

Practice: what old memory (something with low to moderate intensity) would you like to change...recreate the situation in your mind and re-run the scene with a positive ending...you may need to do this several times to have it "take"--consider writing it out and/or narrating it aloud to reinforce the new memory.




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