HONOR


Mary Balogh (2019). Someone to Honor.


This is the 6th book in Balogh's Wescott series. Abigail Wescott (6 years after her father died, she discovers she is an illegitimate daughter) meets Gilbert Bennington (lieutenant colonel raised by a washerwoman mom who rejected the help of his biological wealthy father, whom Gil later reconciles with). After Gil's wife dies in an accident and he returns from battle, he has to fight for the custody of his young daughter Katie. Through extraordinary circumstances, Gil and Abbey are married and obtain custody of Katie.


Favorite quotes:

I will not give up the treasure I have [Gil to Abbey] because I may not get the one I want. p.272

We will do this together, this living, no matter what the future holds in store for us. The future is the one that we can never plan for, even though we are always trying...We will deal with it... p.272

It was their own piece of heaven...Let's go home. p.324


Who in your life can you do things with...be that making a meal, having tea, walking together in the park, living in the same household, creating a family, working together, studying together, jamming--making music together...somehow life feels more complete and comforting when lived with someone.





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