ROMANCE


Mary Balogh (2020). Someone to Romance.


This is the 8th book in Balogh's Westcott series set in the Regency era of England. The relationship between Lady Jesscia Archer and Gabriel Thorne, who returns from a successful business venture of 10 years in America to claim his rightful place as Earl of Lyndale, is central focus. Gabriel learns to see Jessica as a person in addition to her role as an aristocrat.


some of my favorite parts:

"...not music that has been frozen onto a sheet of parchement but music that is living and breathing inside you....It all came from some unknown somewhere inside him, yet it seemed too vast to fit within his frame." 313, 119

when music comes from the heart and not the page, some unique place inside oneself, perhaps one has tapped into the univeral consciousness of which we are all a part.

"It is not the rose that makes me happy....It is the fact that you give them to me. That you care..." 322

ideally, in gift giving, our care for the other is expressed in the gift and our desire to contribute to their happiness...this is the real magic of the gift, no matter the size

 

create a small gift for someone you love (a short poem or an object from nature for instance, something that takes less than 5 mins to do)...think of them while you craft the gift...create a special time and place to offer your gift, adding words of kindess and love...making the world a little more wonderful for at least one person




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